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28 July 2025 · Elizabeth Peyton-Jones

Bullying is not the moment. It is the momentum. Why early signals matter the most before they escalate.

When we discuss bullying on set, most people envision an outburst. A dramatic moment. A line crossed.

But that is not how it usually happens.

It is not one moment, it is momentum.

Our data shows that where bullying is reported, signs were there long before the incident. And when they do lead to unfortunate circumstances, those small signals are usually ignored:

  • A crew member was belittled in front of others.
  • Passive-aggressive feedback, again and again.
  • A grievance was brushed off as "just how they are."

It builds. And eventually, it breaks.

Here is what we have seen from the field:

  • 76% of the crew who said they were not treated with dignity also said they could not speak up safely.

The longer early signs go unacknowledged, the harder it is for anyone to speak.

And the more dangerous it becomes, mentally, emotionally, even physically.

So, what can productions do?

  • Train for micro-awareness, not just macro-interventions.
  • Monitor patterns, not just complaints.
  • Have multiple and safe ways to speak up, not just the official ones.
  • Build a culture of repair, not just avoidance.

Because conduct is not just what happens in a crisis.

It is what we tolerate day to day.

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